Nomad JuanCa's Report

Hi, well... for you all to know.. my days of dating are over. We broke, it is finished... kaput!!

It was my decision... today i asked this person to be only friends. Perhaps is what this person also wanted, finally i took the decision taking into account some situations that were bothering me lately.

As i said... when one is together with someone in a specific period of life it is usually because God wants to teach us things... and i think i learnt many things with this person... here some of them

• It is great to have sex not just with "someone" but with SOMEONE YOU REALLY LIKE.


• It is great to date someone smart


• When you are dating someone you must be patient, tolerant... but never let the other person threat you like if they have power on you.


• It feels great to be loyal and faithful to the person you are dating


• I remembered i don't like when i hear someone saying "I'm like that... and I won't change"


• Never date someone who likes to be with you but fights against the idea of having something formal with you (weird uh?)


• Never date someone who likes to receive... attention, love, care, nice words but is unable to reciprocate


• It is great to date someone who is exigent with you... it gets the best out of you and helps you to grow.


• When you grow... you learn when to say "it is enough".


• When you decide something but feel disturbed... wait until tomorrow... a new day bring always a clearer vision

I like this person, and i won't deny that meant something special in my life but i don't really think it is the right person in my life in this moment. Yesterday night i was a bit down about this reality.... but today i felt calmed... i felt in peace... perhaps being with this person was giving me more pleasure than happiness... and i chose to go for real happiness instead of pleasure. (If you don't understand me wait until i post about the Dalai Lama's book i am reading).

I met this person on the messenger tonight... we didn't talk... but my heart did not jump. ok, signed, sealed, delivered. Now i close this circle in my life and open a new one.

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